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The Exiles: New Member Orientation, Sunday April 7


When: Sunday, April 07, 2013 • 2:00 PM – 4:00 PM Where: Niebyl-Proctor Library (Marxist Library) 6501 Telegraph Ave, Oakland, CA @ map

Cost: $10 donation at the door Dress code: Whatever makes you happy Who: Women and those whose gender self-identification is “other than male.”

Description: WEB: www.thexiles.org and theexiles.org/membership/orient/ Cost: $10 (Nobody . . . → Read More: The Exiles: New Member Orientation, Sunday April 7

Ergonomic Roughhousing with Lamalani April 2013


Ergonomic Roughhousing Presented by Lamalani Friday Apr 26, 2013 – doors open at 7:30pm

Lamalani draws from seven years of self-defense training and 22 years as a percussionist to teach how to hit ergonomically, ways to strike, and how to balance out size differences. This class will teach tops to pack a better . . . → Read More: Ergonomic Roughhousing with Lamalani April 2013

Elections and Talents, reading, singing, demonstrations, comedy, examples… March 2013


Elections and Talents, reading, singing, demonstrations, comedy, examples.. Presented by The Exiles Friday Mar 15, 2013 – doors open at 7:30pm

Have you something you’ve wanted to try out in front of an audience? Do you want to be heard or seen?

The March Exiles program is election time. Elections happpen, new . . . → Read More: Elections and Talents, reading, singing, demonstrations, comedy, examples… March 2013

The Art and History of Fetish Worship with Liliane Hunt February 2013


The Art and History of Fetish Worship Presented by Liliane Hunt Friday Feb 15, 2013 – doors open at 7:30pm

Liliane Hunt will present on The Art and History of Fetish Worship. Offering a peek behind the curtain, into the psychology, history and meaning of fetishism. In this delightfully informative class Ms. Liliane . . . → Read More: The Art and History of Fetish Worship with Liliane Hunt February 2013

Female Genitorture: How to Make a Woman Scream – January 2013


Female Genitorture: How to Make a Woman Scream Presented by Olga Friday January 18 2013 – doors open at 7:30pm

Cunt play, also known as genitorture, can involve a wide variety of sensations, ranging from sheer pleasure to the most exquisite pain. The female genitals can be a playground of endless possibilities for . . . → Read More: Female Genitorture: How to Make a Woman Scream – January 2013

Caning 101 – An Introduction to the Pains and Pleasures November 16th, 2012


Caning 101 – An Introduction to the Pains and Pleasures Presented by Glenda Rider At the Center for Sex & Culture (see map below) Friday November 16th, 2012 – doors open at 7:30pm

This workshop will cover the basic techniques of using a cane for pain and pleasure. We will also discuss some . . . → Read More: Caning 101 – An Introduction to the Pains and Pleasures November 16th, 2012

Carnal Carnival: Kinkiest Carnival Ever December 2012


Kinkiest Carnival Ever Presented by the Exiles At the Women’s Building Friday Dec 21, 2012 – doors open at 7:30pm

Come one, come all, to the kinkiest carnival ever. Join your friends at the Exiles for a hot night of kink, fun, music, and debauchery!

Cheer on your favorites in the vibrator races, . . . → Read More: Carnal Carnival: Kinkiest Carnival Ever December 2012

Walk on Me: The Art of Foot Worship October 2012


The Art of Foot Worship Presented by Deborah Isadora Wade Friday Oct 19th, 2012 – doors open at 7:30pm

Our feet carry us everywhere. They are stuffed in boots, heels, and shoes to small, to tight or too high. Foot fetishism is the most common form of sexual preference for otherwise non-sexual objects . . . → Read More: Walk on Me: The Art of Foot Worship October 2012

ANAL PLAY With Ms Cynthia September 2012


ANAL PLAY Presented by Ms Cynthia Friday Sep 21, 2012 – doors open at 7:30pm at the Women’s Bldg (map below)

Oh yes, that dark, delicious other orifice is indeed what we are talking about. Many taboos have been associated with anal play and many of us have had less than desirable experiences . . . → Read More: ANAL PLAY With Ms Cynthia September 2012

Hot August Nights – Social, Readings, Education & Demonstrations – August 2012


Hot August Nights Presented by the Exiles Friday August 17th, 2012 :: 7-8pm Social Hour :: 8-10pm Program

Generate some heat this Summer at the Exiles ‘Hot August Nights’ program. Arouse your inner Flirt & make your Pick-Up Play Sizzle!!!

Our August 17th program will begin with a Social Hour, leading . . . → Read More: Hot August Nights – Social, Readings, Education & Demonstrations – August 2012