Photo partial of an Exiles member standing against a Leather Pride flag painted wall, facing the wall. They are wearing fishnet tights, a black leotard, covered by a black leather vest with the Exiles logo patched on the back.

The Exiles is a 501(c)3 women- and queer- centered educational organization for all individuals who self-identify as other than cisgender men. Individuals must be over the age of 18 years old and have a positive interest in BDSM.

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Black Leatherdyke Pop-Up Social

Black Leatherdyke Pop-Up Social

Wednesday Sep 23, 2026    
7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Women of the Black Panther Mural & Museum
An Evening of Community, Black Women Representation, and Leather to kick off Folsom Week
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Black Leather Legends

Black Leather Legends

Thursday Sep 24, 2026    
7:00 pm – 9:00 pm
Tenderloin Museum
Four of the Original Pearls One Extraordinary Conversation
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Compton's Cafeteria Riot

Compton's Cafeteria Riot

Saturday Sep 26, 2026    
3:00 pm – 5:00 pm
Tenderloin Museum
A Special Folsom Weekend Community Performance
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Exiles Online Munch

Exiles Online Munch

Wednesday Oct 7, 2026    
6:30 pm – 8:00 pm
Zoom
If you’re interested in getting to know The Exiles, looking to connect in a safe, queer group, come hang out with The Exiles on the first Wednesday of the month!
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Note on Accessibility: The Exiles look forward to providing more accessibility information soon, including how to request interpreters for the Deaf and HOH community.