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The Exiles is a 501(c)3 women- and queer- centered educational organization for all individuals who self-identify as other than cisgender men. Individuals must be over the age of 18 years old and have a positive interest in BDSM.

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The Art of Switching: Shifting Beyond the Binary

The Art of Switching: Shifting Beyond the Binary

Saturday Nov 21, 2026    
2:00 pm – 4:00 pm
Explore the unique skills of navigating both sides of the slash, helping switches build stronger negotiations, healthier power dynamics, and more intentional, fulfilling kink experiences.
Exiles In-Person Munch

Exiles In-Person Munch

Wednesday Nov 25, 2026    
6:30 pm – 8:00 pm
EXILES IN-PERSON MUNCHCasual Social Hangout Looking for an easy way to connect with the Exiles community during the week? Join us for our in-person munch, […]
Exiles Online Munch

Exiles Online Munch

Wednesday Dec 2, 2026    
6:30 pm – 8:00 pm
If you’re interested in getting to know The Exiles, looking to connect in a safe, queer group, come hang out with The Exiles on the first Wednesday of the month!
Online Orientation: BDSM 101

Online Orientation: BDSM 101

Sunday Dec 6, 2026    
5:00 pm – 7:00 pm
The Exiles is an inclusive and sex positive space for women, intersex, nonbinary, genderqueer, gender variant, or gender non-conforming.  People who identify as men are […]
 

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Note on Accessibility: The Exiles look forward to providing more accessibility information soon, including how to request interpreters for the Deaf and HOH community.