Use this page to RENEW your membership, or JOIN the Exiles once you’ve attended our Orientation.

All memberships include:

  • Half off on door fees for all programs
  • Discounts on safer sex supplies 
  • Reciprocity with other leather organizations
  • Our newsletter, The Lunatic Fringe
  • Free personal ads in the newsletter
  • The right to vote and become Directors
  • 10% discount on some services and toys sold by local vendors in the leather community

Who Can Join?

Anyone who meets all of these criteria:

  • All people who are women, intersex, nonbinary, genderqueer, gender variant, or gender-nonconforming; anyone who does not identify as male.
  • Be over 18 years of age
  • Have a personal and positive interest in BDSM
  • Have attended an Orientation, previously been a member, or are a member of a reciprocal organization

Your membership is paid yearly.
You can select to have your membership auto-renew on the following page.


$40 a year

Economic Equity

Have more? Pay more. Have less? Pay less.