ABOUT THE PROGRAM
Under Her Heels: Stilettos as a Dungeon Implement
Control from the Ground Up
Under Her Heels: Stilettos as a Dungeon Implement
Control from the Ground Up
High heels are not just fashion. They are posture, presence, control, intention…. intimidation 
In this class, we explore stilettos and pumps as fully realized dungeon implements. From precise pressure to sharp impact, from stillness to domination, heels become a tool for shaping sensation, directing power, and building dynamic connection. A single step can command attention. A shift in weight can change the entire scene.
You might never look at a pair of red bottom heels the same way again.
This is a dual-perspective experience that centers both sides of the interaction. Not just the person wearing the heel, but the person feeling it.
D-types / Tops will explore:
Using heels for control, restraint, and intentional pressure
Techniques for impact, teasing, and psychological intensity
Body language, posture, and femme authority as part of dominance
Building scenes where heels are the primary or only implement
s-types / bottoms will explore:
Techniques for impact, teasing, and psychological intensity
Body language, posture, and femme authority as part of dominance
Building scenes where heels are the primary or only implement
s-types / bottoms will explore:
Sensation across the body through weight, pressure, and contact
Psychological responses to proximity, control, and vulnerability
Devotional dynamics and the experience of being under her heel
Communication, negotiation, and staying grounded during play
Together, we will work through guided exercises that build confidence, awareness, and skill. This class engages the full experience of D/s. Physical, emotional, and psychological.
Psychological responses to proximity, control, and vulnerability
Devotional dynamics and the experience of being under her heel
Communication, negotiation, and staying grounded during play
Together, we will work through guided exercises that build confidence, awareness, and skill. This class engages the full experience of D/s. Physical, emotional, and psychological.
Expect something sharp, intentional, and deeply felt.
This is about more than impact. It is about presence, tension, and what it means to be under their heels.
This is about more than impact. It is about presence, tension, and what it means to be under their heels.
What We Will CoverHeels as impact and sensation tools
Pressure play and controlled contact
Power dynamics and psychological framing
Body language and dominance through posture
Scene building with a single implement
Consent, negotiation, and safety in heel play
Pressure play and controlled contact
Power dynamics and psychological framing
Body language and dominance through posture
Scene building with a single implement
Consent, negotiation, and safety in heel play
Prerequisites & NotesWear clothing you can move comfortably in. Floor work may be involved
Tops/D-types:
Bring your own heels. Multiple pairs are welcome
Be comfortable with basic movement such as standing, walking, and balance
If you are newer to heels, consider taking a foundational class first
Bring your own heels. Multiple pairs are welcome
Be comfortable with basic movement such as standing, walking, and balance
If you are newer to heels, consider taking a foundational class first
You may attend solo or with a partner
If unpartnered, be open to practicing with others
If unpartnered, be open to practicing with others
TICKETS
$10 for members.
$20 for non-members.
*sliding scale options available.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/the-exiles/6fe5a89370
$10 for members.
$20 for non-members.
*sliding scale options available.
https://forbiddentickets.com/events/the-exiles/6fe5a89370
ABOUT THE PRESENTER
Click Your Heels is the creation of founder Alexandria Nichandros, providing body confidence coaching, movement workshops, “edutainment”, performances, and more. The mission is to help everyone Come Home To Your Body. Alexandria has been leading people in movement and dance since 1998, including one-on-one coaching, custom private events, and leading crowds of 100’s from the stage. Her mantra is #whenindoubtslowdown and her rally cry is “All bodies, All genders”. Her style is fun, focused, approachable, and memorable. Her coaching work centers mind-body connection, body confidence, and self-love. Her dance work emphasizes improvisation and musicality, strength and flexibility. She wants all humans to experience divine somatic energy and be in partnership with our bodies.
Click Your Heels is the creation of founder Alexandria Nichandros, providing body confidence coaching, movement workshops, “edutainment”, performances, and more. The mission is to help everyone Come Home To Your Body. Alexandria has been leading people in movement and dance since 1998, including one-on-one coaching, custom private events, and leading crowds of 100’s from the stage. Her mantra is #whenindoubtslowdown and her rally cry is “All bodies, All genders”. Her style is fun, focused, approachable, and memorable. Her coaching work centers mind-body connection, body confidence, and self-love. Her dance work emphasizes improvisation and musicality, strength and flexibility. She wants all humans to experience divine somatic energy and be in partnership with our bodies.
ACCESSIBILITY
Our event will take place at 1286 Folsom Street (at 9th Street) in San Francisco on the ground floor, which is fully wheelchair accessible. A single-stall, all-genders bathroom will be available.
Our event will take place at 1286 Folsom Street (at 9th Street) in San Francisco on the ground floor, which is fully wheelchair accessible. A single-stall, all-genders bathroom will be available.
Public Transportation:
– BART: The nearest stations are Civic Center/UN Plaza and Powell Street, each about a 15–20 minute walk.
– Muni: Several bus lines serve the area, including the 9 San Bruno, 27 Bryant, and 47 Van Ness, which stop within a few blocks of Folsom and 9th.
– Bike parking is available nearby, and limited street parking is available in the neighborhood.
– BART: The nearest stations are Civic Center/UN Plaza and Powell Street, each about a 15–20 minute walk.
– Muni: Several bus lines serve the area, including the 9 San Bruno, 27 Bryant, and 47 Van Ness, which stop within a few blocks of Folsom and 9th.
– Bike parking is available nearby, and limited street parking is available in the neighborhood.
Health & Safety:
– Masks are encouraged but optional.
– We advocate for vaccination and rely on the honor system for individual responsibility.
– If you test positive for COVID-19 after attending, we kindly request that you notify us so we can share updates with attendees.
– Please stay home if you are feeling unwell or experiencing any symptoms of illness.
– Masks are encouraged but optional.
– We advocate for vaccination and rely on the honor system for individual responsibility.
– If you test positive for COVID-19 after attending, we kindly request that you notify us so we can share updates with attendees.
– Please stay home if you are feeling unwell or experiencing any symptoms of illness.
ABOUT THE EXILES:
The Exiles is a 501(c)3 women- and queer- centered educational organization for all individuals who self-identify as other than cisgender man.
Individuals must be over the age of 18 years old and have a positive interest in BDSM.
The Exiles is a 501(c)3 women- and queer- centered educational organization for all individuals who self-identify as other than cisgender man.
Individuals must be over the age of 18 years old and have a positive interest in BDSM.
