January: Submission Through Service with BoiRae

When

Friday Jan 16, 2026    
6:00 pm - 7:30 pm

Where

Zoom
n/a, virtual

Event Type

**ONLINE EDUCATION PROGRAM**

What makes something service? In this interactive workshop, Boi Rae breaks down the emotional, domestic, bodily, practical, and community-centered forms of service that can exist within D/s relationships as well as in shared kink spaces and events. Participants will learn how to build sustainable service practices through discussions on expectations, rituals, aftercare, service drop, and creating a personalized service menu. Open to all experience levels.

**Who is BoiRae?**
Bio: Rae (They/Them) has been in kink sense 2010 but active in the Sacramento community sense 2013. They have been working with leather their whole life, from renfairs to horse back riding. You can often find them bootblacking at The Sacramento Bolt. They are also one of the co-leads for the Sacramento Leather Pride Bootblacks.

They also help lead several groups, including Sacramento Boot Lab and CigarSocial, and the Sacramento Masculine Submissive Support Group. Rae serves as the door person at KI and many other events.They love heavy impact and rope but have a special place in their heart for service kinks. They are a self-described serve slut, and can be found volunteering bartending private parties, helping at events like NorthWest Leather Celebration, Sacramento Leather Pride and many more. If you are ever unsure how to get a conversation going with Rae, ask them about their nine pets.

**ACCESSIBILITY**
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**TICKETS**
Non-members: $20
Members: $10
The Exiles believe that financial status should never be a barrier to education or community. Sliding scale options are available

 

“Submission Through Service” with BoiRae