Friday February 18, 2022    
8:00 pm - 10:00 pm


n/a, virtual

Event Type

Rituals are used for many reasons in BDSM. We will give examples of different rituals and how they are used. Adding rituals to your relationship will help keep both participants aware of the D/s in the relationship. I will demonstrate the many rituals that I use and ask others to share theirs. Rituals are especially useful in new D/s relationships to help maintain the correct mindset for the submissive as well as the Dominant. This class will help you to evolve to a new level in your D/s relationship.

About Our Presenter:

Lady D is a Lifestyle Domme from Atlanta Georgia who has been in the scene for over 30 years. She is an ordained minister, a serious shoe fetishist, and a certified master hypnotherapist who believes in the holistic healing of mind, body and spirit. For almost fourteen years she ran P.E.P (People Exchanging Power) Atlanta, a BDSM pansexual support and social group, and in 2001 She created People Exchanging Power for People of Color. Lady D is also the founder and past President of the Onyx Pearls Southeast, a women’s sorority focused on female camaraderie, empowerment, community awareness and service. 

Lady D has taught at leather conferences and events across the country, including South Plains Leather, Leather Leadership Conference, Southeast Leatherfest, Thunder in the Mountains, Women’s International Leather Legacy, the Master/slave Conference, Sin in The City, American Brotherhood Weekend, and the Leather History Preservation Foundation Conference.

Her personal commitment is to help make this community stronger, and to continue Jill Carter’s philosophy of Each One, Teach One.

We look forward to a very special evening with Lady D. Hope to see you there.


The Exiles is an inclusive and sex positive space for all people who are women, intersex, nonbinary, genderqueer, gender variant, or gender-nonconforming. People who are men are asked not to attend.

This is a virtual event.   Please click the link below to register the event. 


This event is free, however donations are greatly appreciated. With more funds available to us, we can continue building more inclusive, educational, and creatively produced community-building programs. Please strongly consider donating to The Exiles today!
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