You’ve probably got the basic mechanics of strap on sex down. But how can you really *feel* it, and feel like it’s not just a plastic tool, but part of you? In this experiential workshop, we’ll talk about increasing sensation, myths, benefits, and our relationships to our pelvis & genitals in general, and then we’ll go into experiments to feel more embodiment in our whole bodies, and in our straps specifically. Join Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them), trans butch writer and aficionado of aftermarket dicks, for this deep dive into intermediate/advanced strap on skills. Please wear a strap!
The Exiles is an inclusive and sex positive space for all people who are women, intersex, nonbinary, genderqueer, gender variant, or gender-nonconforming. People who are men are asked not to attend.
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About Our Presenter:
SINCLAIR SEXSMITH (they/them) is a queer trans butch, a leather dominant, and a writer, focusing on individual, interpersonal, and institutional systems of power. They study dominance and submission, social & restorative justice, the energetic body, trauma, and transformation. They have been in the kink communities since 1999, and orchestrate transformative kink scenes through written erotica and ritual practice. They actively explore the philosophies of power exchange and the practicalities of sustainable, long term D/s. As a leather community member, titleholder, and organizer, Sinclair has presented and performed 200+ times at 75+ venues, including International Ms. Leather, Dark Odyssey, SXSW, Harvard, and Oz Kink Fest. Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for a Lambda Literary Award, and they edited 5 editions of the Best Lesbian Erotica series. Find more of their work at sugarbutch.net.