July Program: Annual Novice Night


Friday July 16, 2021    
8:00 pm - 10:00 pm


n/a, virtual

Event Type

The Exiles is an inclusive and sex positive space for all people whose gender self-identification is other than male.  If you do not identify as such, please respect the space and do not attend the event.

It’s Novice Night! – our yearly program welcoming people new to the scene, with information, tips, and tricks to help you navigate this world and join in the fun. This program will include a panel of six players to chat about how they found themselves in the leather scene, along with a series of short video demos to get your kinky blood pumping! 

Our panel includes midnight mayhem: the event organizer for Los Angeles’ QTBIPOC centered play party, Fresh Meat; Teagan: co-founder of The Daughters of Medusa, a new leather club for trans leatherwomen and non-binary trans individuals; Tomo: an illustrious leather titleholder, emcee, and event producer; Laura Luna: a Queer Fat Xicana Femme and cultural curator from LA; Kara: the most recent Exiles Co-Coordinator and kinky academic; and Dandy: a community involved Brit-born sadist with a cricket bat. These sexy pervs will tell their own stories and answer questions from you. No questions are too simple or too juicy! 

Along the way, we’ll show a variety of BDSM practices through a series of short, exciting demonstration videos. So if you’ve always wanted to know more but were afraid to ask, this is the event for you!

Please check out our FaceBook and Fetlife posts about the event for more information or to share and invite others.

Join us for an unforgettable night on Friday, July 16th, from 8:00 PM- 10 PM. We can hardly wait to stoke the flames of your kinky desire and make you want more!

This is a virtual event.   Please use the button below to register. 


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