
Touch. Tingle. Try something new.
On Friday, July 11th, the Exiles invite you to Feel It Out—a novice-centered play party designed to spark curiosity, stir desire, and bring our community together for a night of exploration and connection.
We’re transforming Transform 1060 into a dungeon of possibility. From 7–8PM, join us for a Meet n Greet—a casual, welcoming hour to mingle, get grounded, and start the flirtation. Whether you’re flying solo or arriving with partners, this is your moment to connect and settle in.
From 8–9:30PM, five incredible House Tops will offer hands-on tasting stations—an invitation to try new sensations with trusted, experienced guides. The dungeon opens at 8PM and remains open to all players through 1AM.
TASTING TOPS INCLUDE:
Sumiko (they/them or ze/hir) – 2024 Golden Dildeaux Top of Them All
Madame Folly (she/her) – Ms. SF Leather 2024
Nunca (she/her) – Ms. SF Eagle Leather 2023
Daddy Gauge (they/them/gurl) – Edge-player, Educator, & Cherry Collecting Sadist
MamaBear (she/her) – Ms. SF Eagle Leather 2025
Mat (she/her) – Hands-on Kink Educator & Exiles Treasurer
Sumiko (they/them or ze/hir) – 2024 Golden Dildeaux Top of Them All
Madame Folly (she/her) – Ms. SF Leather 2024
Nunca (she/her) – Ms. SF Eagle Leather 2023
Daddy Gauge (they/them/gurl) – Edge-player, Educator, & Cherry Collecting Sadist
MamaBear (she/her) – Ms. SF Eagle Leather 2025
Mat (she/her) – Hands-on Kink Educator & Exiles Treasurer
Expect a buffet of delicious kink: caning, kitchen pervertables, piercing, clothespins, wax, spanking, flogging, paddles, electricity, and more. Get a taste—and then go play.

Got scuffs? Or just need some attention? Slide into Micky’s chair—our in-house bootblack for the night and the reigning SF Eagle Bootblack 2025. Micky doesn’t just shine leathers—she resurrect them.
Whether you’re after a quick tune-up or a longer, flirtatious scene, Micky offers deep care, dazzling skill, and a spark of heat—with full respect for boundaries and consent. Come for the shine, stay for the experience.
Tips are sexy—and very much encouraged.


This event is brought to you with love, intention, and plenty of planning by your Exiles crew:
Mat & Tammy – Event Hosts
Mo – Dungeon Monitor Organizer
Kara – Meet n Greet Facilitator
Mo – Dungeon Monitor Organizer
Kara – Meet n Greet Facilitator
We’ve got you covered—whether you’re exploring for the first time or coming home to the dungeon.

Exiles Members – Early Bird: $25
Non-Members – Early Bird: $45
Equity Tickets: $20 (limited availability – once sold out, join the waitlist)
Sponsor a Kinkster Ticket: $65 (Buy your ticket + $20 to help someone attend—because community care is sexy.)
Volunteer for Entry: A limited number of volunteer spots are available in exchange for free admission. Volunteer Link
Volunteer for Entry: A limited number of volunteer spots are available in exchange for free admission. Volunteer Link


Once you purchase your ticket, you’ll receive an email reminder including our COVID policy and a full list of Dungeon Party Rules to help you prepare for a night that’s safe, consensual, and hot as hell.
COVID POLICY:
All attendees are required to present proof of a negative Rapid Antigen self-test (home kit) taken within 24 hours prior to the event. Proof must be a selfie that includes your face, the negative test strip, and a piece of paper with your full name and the date clearly written.
All attendees are required to present proof of a negative Rapid Antigen self-test (home kit) taken within 24 hours prior to the event. Proof must be a selfie that includes your face, the negative test strip, and a piece of paper with your full name and the date clearly written.
No test, no entry. No refunds. Test kits will not be provided or available at the venue, so please plan ahead and arrive prepared. Masks are optional.
ACCESSIBILITY INFO:
Transform1060 includes a ground-level courtyard that serves as a primary roll-in access point for guests with disabilities. The bathroom is on the first floor and gender-neutral. Lockers are available on both levels. Please note: there is no elevator access to the second floor.
Transform1060 includes a ground-level courtyard that serves as a primary roll-in access point for guests with disabilities. The bathroom is on the first floor and gender-neutral. Lockers are available on both levels. Please note: there is no elevator access to the second floor.
We’re working on expanding our accessibility details soon. If you have specific access needs or questions in the meantime, please don’t hesitate to reach out.
WHO WE ARE
The Exiles are a 501(c)(3) nonprofit leather/BDSM education organization, offering a play-centered, consent-forward space for those under the umbrella of women, non-binary, and trans self-identifying folks. Known for our legendary Novice Nights, we’re thrilled to bring you this special version—with a twist. Come explore your edges, discover new kinks, and celebrate the beauty of our leather community across all experience levels.
The Exiles are a 501(c)(3) nonprofit leather/BDSM education organization, offering a play-centered, consent-forward space for those under the umbrella of women, non-binary, and trans self-identifying folks. Known for our legendary Novice Nights, we’re thrilled to bring you this special version—with a twist. Come explore your edges, discover new kinks, and celebrate the beauty of our leather community across all experience levels.