The Exiles is a 501(c)3 women- and queer- centered educational organization for all individuals who self-identify as other than cisgender men. Individuals must be over the age of 18 years old and have a positive interest in BDSM.

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Orientation: BDSM 101

Orientation: BDSM 101

Tuesday October 14, 2025    
6:00 pm – 8:00 pm
Zoom
Fun intro to BDSM: Terminology, play parties, toys, and more! This is a virtual class and a requirement to become an Exiles member.
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Exiles Munch

Exiles Munch

Wednesday November 5, 2025    
6:30 pm – 8:00 pm
Zoom
If you’re interested in getting to know The Exiles, looking to connect in a safe, queer group, come hang out with The Exiles on the first Wednesday of the month!
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Monthly Program, topic TBD

Monthly Program, topic TBD

Friday November 21, 2025    
8:00 pm – 10:00 pm
Zoom
Please check back closer to date of the event for more information. Hope to see you there.
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Exiles Munch

Exiles Munch

Wednesday December 3, 2025    
6:30 pm – 8:00 pm
Zoom
If you’re interested in getting to know The Exiles, looking to connect in a safe, queer group, come hang out with The Exiles on the first Wednesday of the month!
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Note on Accessibility: The Exiles look forward to providing more accessibility information soon, including how to request interpreters for the Deaf and HOH community.