The Exiles - San Francisco

Let’s Stick Together – A Hands On Piercing Workshop Presented by Karen Friday Apr 20, 2012 – doors open at 7:30pm

Pointed and shiny, needles hold a special fascination for many of us, whether it’s from vaguely unpleasant doctor’s office memories, or our innate discomfort with the possibility of injury inherent in sharp . . . → Read More: Let’s Stick Together – A Hands On Piercing Workshop April 2012

Kinky Women’s Social & Elections March 2012 Presented by Community Effort Friday Mar 16, 2012 – doors open at 7:30pm

Join the Exiles for a Women’s Social this month! We’re holding an admission-free event at our March program, where we will elect new officers and welcome all women (and those whose gender identity . . . → Read More: Kinky Women’s Social & Elections March 2012

I Want Some Hot Stuff, Baby… We’ve all seen someone rub ‘Icy Hot’ or some other muscle rub on the bottom, but how safe is this? What kind of things can you do to heat up your play? Do you know what figging is? Have you considered nettles? Are there any interesting things to do with spices? How about hot oils? . . . → Read More: Hotter Than Hell: Fire, Ice, Wax and Spice February 2012

Face slapping, spanking, bondage, pounding penetration, role playing, talking smut? Sound like you? If you are already doing some of these things, here’s your chance to dive deeper into the sea of Rough Sex. . . . → Read More: Rough Sex 2: Immediate Gratification January 2012 Program

Mind Fucks/Mental Games Presented by Rope Wolf Friday November 18, 2011 – doors open at 7:30pm

“How do I safely fuck with someone’s mind?” If you want the answer to that question, this class is for you! I will get those creative wheels turning in your mind. Learn how to intensify the tricks . . . → Read More: Mind Fucks/Mental Games November 2011 Program

Fire. Primal. Fear. Longing. Fire play Presented by Loren Quon Friday September 16, 2011 – doors open at 7:30pm

Have you seen fire play? Felt the lick of flame against flesh? Heard the quiet whoosh of ignition followed by a quick intake of breath? Watched the tracing of flame move up someone’s back? . . . → Read More: Fire. Primal. Fear. Longing. Fire play with Loren Quon September 2011 Program

How to Host a Gang Bang: “Pulling a Train in Style” Presented by Lady Hilary Friday Oct 21, 2011 – doors open at 7:30pm

Have you or one of your play partners always wanted to be “taken” by a gang, a group, a mob? This is the workshop for you, we will discuss . . . → Read More: How to Host a Gang Bang: “Pulling a Train in Style” October 2011 Program

When Master Hurts Presented by Sage Friday Aug 19, 2011 – doors open at 7:30pm

The Dominant – strong, determined, tough, in control – but not invincible. What happens when the Dominant in a D/s-M/s relationship is afflicted with pain, be it physical or emotional? It’s not a subject we like to think . . . → Read More: When Master Hurts August 2011 Program

… sometimes I like them to put up a fight. Sometimes I want to take what I want instead of it being given to me. If you like the idea of overpowering someone, or being overpowered… if you’ve fantasized about forcing your will on someone, or being made to feel completely helpless . . . → Read More: Resistance Play and Rape June 2011 Program