Party Tips

Here's some info to help you have a good time at Bacchanalia

So you know, this isn't strictly a SM play party. It's a lot more than that.
-- It's a kinky BDSM & more party
-- It's a women's sex party
-- It's a great chance to watch & maybe even learn. The Exiles is an educational organization after all!
-- If you don't have a date, there will be many other women there flying solo. You won't be alone.
-- If you are in a monogamous relationship, come together & enjoy the charged atmosphere.

First Time? To Play or Not to Play:

This is a BDSM kinky play party. Do what you're in the mood for. There will be sex there so think in advance of what boundaries you have for safer sex practice. If you're not ready for something just tell your play partner. Explain that this is your first party and that will give you an opening to ask all sorts of questions. There will be gloves and condoms at the party. Not sure about dental dams. If you're particular about glove size as we are, bring your own. The gloves/condoms are latex so if you're latex sensitive, please bring your own non-latex supplies. Also a good idea to bring your own sex toys, SM toys. (to be used on you or for you to use on your play partner.)

What to Wear

Because it's a kinky thematic play party, fetish wear is welcome, but not necessary. Clothes that make you feel sexy are a plus. Leather is always highly encouraged. Theme clothing is also fine. Anything reminiscent of the Greek & Roman times which gave birth to the Maenads & the Bacchanalia is also welcome. Create your own woman warrior outfit or use the classic toga. Underwear, lingerie, jock strap + tank top + boots, these are some good ideas. Should the mood strike, by all means, come in fetish wear. If you need some ideas check out this article on fetish wear.

How to Make the Best of Bacchanalia

One last thought...
- If you have questions at the party, do not be afraid to ask!

We hope that helped. Any other questions? Email info (at) theexiles (dot) org.

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