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Novice Night July 2011 Program

Novice Night Presented by the Exiles Friday July 15, 2011 – doors open at 7:30pm

For our July program, it’s all about YOU – novices – those new to BDSM and the BDSM community. This is your night! Come prepared for lots of information and lots of fun. To begin with you will . . . → Read More: Novice Night July 2011 Program

Saburau The Warrior’s Path of Service May 2011 Program

Saburau – The Warrior’s Path of Service
Presented by Toshi (“Ronin” / T”)
Friday May 13, 2011 – doors open at 7:30pm

The samurai rose to power as the elite ruling caste of Japan, yet their title is derived from the word saburau, meaning to attend or to serve. Whether you identify as dominant or submissive, top or bottom, master or slave, this workshop is designed to introduce you to various aspects of deeply interconnected and service-oriented interpersonal relationships as they have been successfully practiced for centuries. . . . → Read More: Saburau The Warrior’s Path of Service May 2011 Program

Role play archetypes and aspects April 2011 program

Role play – archetypes and aspects Presented by Jet Moon and Miss Dotty Friday April 22, 2011 – doors open at 7:30pm

It’s fun to dress up or to mentally create the surrounding fantasy. This can be a way of living out a role we crave, allowing an inner aspect of ourselves to be . . . → Read More: Role play archetypes and aspects April 2011 program

Mini Un-Conference March 2011 Program

Mini Un-Conference

We’ll be holding a Mini Un-Conference along with our elections.

What is an Un-Conference?

An Un-Conference is a participant-driven information exchange.  So, what’s the topic?  We don’t know—that is part of the magic.  We’re providing a forum for free exchange of information.

Anyone attending can bring a topic, idea or demonstration.  Do . . . → Read More: Mini Un-Conference March 2011 Program

Love you ~ Mean it ! – Love in the context of Sadomasochism

Friday, February 18, 2011 7:30pm at The Women’s Building San Francisco

One of Queen Cougar’s favorite quotes is: The Love in your heart wasn’t put there to stay.. love isn’t love…till you give it away. In this month that celebrates Love and the opportunity to give and receive love – it seems appropriate to . . . → Read More: Love you ~ Mean it ! – Love in the context of Sadomasochism

Bootblacking and Leathercare 101 – January 2011 Program

Friday, January 21, 2011 7:30pm at The Women’s Building San Francisco

Bootblacking is the art and science of caring for leather goods, and is a vital part of the “Leather” community. If you have ever felt the urge to learn about bootblacking, want to experience what it is like to sit in a bootblack’s . . . → Read More: Bootblacking and Leathercare 101 – January 2011 Program

Carnal Carnival 2010

Friday, December 17, 2009 Program starts at 7:30pm

Remember those hot summer nights at the county fair, feeling the thrill of the rides and trying your hand at throwing baseballs at milk jugs? THAT’S NOT THIS. Instead, we have a hot winter night of kink, fun, music, and debauchery!  Throw a whip, feel a . . . → Read More: Carnal Carnival 2010

Suspension Bondage November 2010 Program

Suspension bondage Crash and Burn with Madame Butterfly Friday, Nov 19, 2010

How do you know you will survive a suspension intact? People have gotten hurt in suspension, some of them quite badly.

Each suspension is different as is each rigger and each victim (er, bottom) Every person suspends differently and every bottom . . . → Read More: Suspension Bondage November 2010 Program

October 2010 Program

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October 2010 Program Let Your Beast Out! with Cleo Dubois Friday, Oct 15, 2010

Afraid to embrace your sadistic energies? Think you’ll go too far? emotional repercussions after a heavy scene? Never get to be as deeply masochistic as you really are?

Well-known for creating fiery scenes of conscious and caring SM . . . → Read More: October 2010 Program