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Rough Sex 2: Immediate Gratification January 2012 Program

Face slapping, spanking, bondage, pounding penetration, role playing, talking smut? Sound like you? If you are already doing some of these things, here’s your chance to dive deeper into the sea of Rough Sex. . . . → Read More: Rough Sex 2: Immediate Gratification January 2012 Program

Mind Fucks/Mental Games November 2011 Program

Mind Fucks/Mental Games Presented by Rope Wolf Friday November 18, 2011 – doors open at 7:30pm

“How do I safely fuck with someone’s mind?” If you want the answer to that question, this class is for you! I will get those creative wheels turning in your mind. Learn how to intensify the tricks . . . → Read More: Mind Fucks/Mental Games November 2011 Program

Fire. Primal. Fear. Longing. Fire play with Loren Quon September 2011 Program

Fire. Primal. Fear. Longing. Fire play Presented by Loren Quon Friday September 16, 2011 – doors open at 7:30pm

Have you seen fire play? Felt the lick of flame against flesh? Heard the quiet whoosh of ignition followed by a quick intake of breath? Watched the tracing of flame move up someone’s back? . . . → Read More: Fire. Primal. Fear. Longing. Fire play with Loren Quon September 2011 Program

How to Host a Gang Bang: “Pulling a Train in Style” October 2011 Program

How to Host a Gang Bang: “Pulling a Train in Style” Presented by Lady Hilary Friday Oct 21, 2011 – doors open at 7:30pm

Have you or one of your play partners always wanted to be “taken” by a gang, a group, a mob? This is the workshop for you, we will discuss . . . → Read More: How to Host a Gang Bang: “Pulling a Train in Style” October 2011 Program

When Master Hurts August 2011 Program

When Master Hurts Presented by Sage Friday Aug 19, 2011 – doors open at 7:30pm

The Dominant – strong, determined, tough, in control – but not invincible. What happens when the Dominant in a D/s-M/s relationship is afflicted with pain, be it physical or emotional? It’s not a subject we like to think . . . → Read More: When Master Hurts August 2011 Program

Resistance Play and Rape June 2011 Program

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… sometimes I like them to put up a fight. Sometimes I want to take what I want instead of it being given to me. If you like the idea of overpowering someone, or being overpowered… if you’ve fantasized about forcing your will on someone, or being made to feel completely helpless . . . → Read More: Resistance Play and Rape June 2011 Program

Carnal Carnival Dec 2011

Throw a whip, feel a singletail, join in the vibrator races. It’s all part of the Exiles Carnal Carnival! We’ll have Ms. Cat; Cleo DuBois; Domina; Daddy Vick and Miss Bethie to name just a few of the fabulous folks. There will be needles, cocksucking . . . → Read More: Carnal Carnival Dec 2011

Novice Night July 2011 Program

Novice Night Presented by the Exiles Friday July 15, 2011 – doors open at 7:30pm

For our July program, it’s all about YOU – novices – those new to BDSM and the BDSM community. This is your night! Come prepared for lots of information and lots of fun. To begin with you will . . . → Read More: Novice Night July 2011 Program

Saburau The Warrior’s Path of Service May 2011 Program

Saburau – The Warrior’s Path of Service
Presented by Toshi (“Ronin” / T”)
Friday May 13, 2011 – doors open at 7:30pm

The samurai rose to power as the elite ruling caste of Japan, yet their title is derived from the word saburau, meaning to attend or to serve. Whether you identify as dominant or submissive, top or bottom, master or slave, this workshop is designed to introduce you to various aspects of deeply interconnected and service-oriented interpersonal relationships as they have been successfully practiced for centuries. . . . → Read More: Saburau The Warrior’s Path of Service May 2011 Program

Role play archetypes and aspects April 2011 program

Role play – archetypes and aspects Presented by Jet Moon and Miss Dotty Friday April 22, 2011 – doors open at 7:30pm

It’s fun to dress up or to mentally create the surrounding fantasy. This can be a way of living out a role we crave, allowing an inner aspect of ourselves to be . . . → Read More: Role play archetypes and aspects April 2011 program