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The Exiles - San Francisco

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Want to be a Presenter?


Are you interested in presenting a topic for the Exiles and want to know more? Here is a sample of our “Presenter Guidelines” that explains a lot, including information about the program evening schedule and our modest compensation options.

Business Forms

Articles of Association

The Exiles is a Non-Profit organization, established in 1997, that is run according to the Articles of Association. Please read the Articles to learn more about Your organization. The Business group encourages and welcomes members and new ideas to our meetings. If you’d like to become an officer of the Exiles, please read the section on the duties of the officers.

Sign Up to get Exiles Information via Email

If you’re not an Exiles member you can still receive information about our events via email.

Click here to sign up on the info mailing list

(Hey, why aren’t you a member? Find out more on the Membership page.)

To Advertise in the Fringe

Classified Ads: $5/Issue
Display Ads: (per issue prices below)

Display Ads:
Single Month
2-6 Months
6+ Months
Biz card (2*3)
1/4 page (31/8 *5)
1/2 page (71/4 * 5)
Full page (new)

Don’t see the option you’re looking for? Contact fringe_editor (at) theexiles (dot) org for rates. The posted rates are for print ready artwork in .jpg, .pdf, or .tif formats only and must be at least 300 dpi. Please do not submit ads as a Word document. Deadline for advertisements by electronic submission is the 20th of each month. Please email ad copy to fringe_editor (at) theexiles (dot) org
Payment is due upon submission and may be mailed to:
P.O. Box 14338,
San Francisco, CA 94114.

Have a Suggestion / Idea for Us?

Exiles members are welcome to bring any project proposal to the business group. This proposal document can be used as a “template” for presenting the necessary information so that the business group can make an educated, timely decision. Check it out!